I think you will pretty quickly understand why:
N.J. ban on gay marriage barred
N.J. justices to hear gay marriage case
Christie drops appeal as N.J. has first gay marriages
Last barrier to N.J. same-sex weddings falls
N.J. judge says same-sex marriage can begin in 2 weeks
Same-sex couples set to wed in N.J.
Ruling allows N.J. gay weddings on Monday
N.J. gay weddings start Monday
Also see: Passions high as Hawaii debates gay marriage
